Okay. So say something terrible has just happened.
How do you handle it?

Say something terrible is about to happen, but you know it's for the best.
How do you minimise the impact?

Say something is going to be how it's going to be.
Is it worth thinking about, or would you rather move on from it as soon as possible with as little thought as possible?

Say you could go back and change something.
Would you?
Why?

Do bad experiences make us who we are?

Without the bad, would we recognise the good?

Do we need to consider others when making decisions best for ourselves?